TRANSFORMATIONAL COACH WITH EXPERTISE IN SEX, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS.
Facilitation work:
Everyones Invited (2023-present)
he EI education programme is designed to empower school communities to promote healthy relationships, sexual well-being and to tackle rape culture. Our approach is personal, empathetic and non judgemental. We present the facts and encourage pupils to think critically about the world around them.
The Visionaries (2023)
Through transformative rites of passage experiences, guide training and nurturing healthy school cultures, we help youth and the adults who work with them
Talking circles led in Soho House Berlin (2022)
Hosting healing circles for women,
Intimacy Director for Theatre (2023)
Consent (Tower Theatre:Stoke Newington)
Closer (Pleasance: Edinburgh)
Music videos.
MY COACHING:
I am a transformational life coach with a specialty in LOVE and SEX (specifically pleasure-orientated), and RELATIONSHIPS.
Aligned with my values of empowering choices, expression, and understanding, my purpose is to help you understand and practice your why’s, what’s, how’s, and when’s of life. I want to create a safe space where the complexities and diversities of experience can be experienced with compassion, without judgment, and with safety.
You will come to me with a situation that you will maybe want a clearer head about, or maybe you want to understand your choices. Maybe you cannot see a clear path on how to achieve your goals or maybe you are struggling to find solutions to a problem that has been taking up too much space.
SPECIFICALLY, SEX/ PLEASURE AND RELATIONSHIP COACHING.
My story:
The reason I embarked on coaching, was to help those who have not been given the fair and ethical education about sex.
I started the journey that landed me here at University when I started WASITGOODFORYOU.
I was poorly educated about sex as many people were and still are. There are multiple myths out there and status quo’s that need to be destabilized. I wanted to create a non-judgmental space where everyone: of all sexualities, genders, and contexts, could express their experiences and emotions, surrounding this dynamic and complex topic. I wanted to exchange shame and static definitions with confidence. I want to take sex out of the taboo but also for sex to be able to go beyond the confines of modern limitations.
I am a writer and artist also and I see creativity as one of the best ways to SEXPRESS and SEXISTENTIALISE. From there I worked with multiple sex magazines, such as THE AMORIST where I learned about polyamory, edging, and sex parties amongst all kinds of explorative sexual environments and situations. I explored the constrictions of religion on women’s bodies and movements in my final year of university and led university educational events on female sexuality and how to use art to speak about sex. I then moved to Berlin where I got to explore sensuality in its darkest and lightest forms. I worked as a creative director of a revolutionary lubricant brand, volunteered for prostitutes, and came out with a WASITGOODFORYOU book.
I add my own personal flavor to coaching as I come from a creative writing background. I run workshops alongside coaching which I can offer in our session such as ‘love letter writing’, ‘erotica writing’, and ‘empowering writing’. I have now also now become the writer for CHEEX which is an ethical porn site to inform, educate and inspire more safe, ethical, and inclusionary sex and relationships (self and others). Alongside writing for CHEEX, I am now the Agony Aunt for all things love sex, and relationships for SLEEK magazine.
NOW I WANT TO USE ALL THESE EXPERTISE, EDUCATION AND CREATIVE EMPOWERMENT TOOLS LEARNT OVER THESE LAST YEARS WORKING IN THE INDUSTRY TO AIDING YOUR JOURNEY.
QUALIFICATIONS
CORST LEARNING
DIVERSITY AND INCLUSION (GSDR TRAINING)
ANIMAS CERTIFICATION FOR TRANSFORMATIONAL COACHING
TAVISTOCK RELATIONSHIPS (further training now in psychoanalysis)
Areas of expertise:
Pleasure gap, masturbation, erotic writing, sensual confidence, understanding desire, relationship troubles, disconnection with your empowered self, self-exploration, expression through creativity, how to choose freedom, and healthy relationships with yourself and others.
I ALSO OFFER LIFE COACHING ON CHOICES AND OUTCOMES OF FREELANCE CAREER, WRITING, ENVIRONMENTAL ANXIETY, AND ASPECTS OF BEING A YOUNG WOMAN IN TODAY’S SOCIETY. I WORK FOR A SCHOOL AS A MENTOR AND A COMPANY CALLED CAPLOR HORIZONS AS A MENTOR AND COACH FOR CHANGEMAKERS.
CHARACTERISTICS OF YOUR TRANSFORMATIONAL COACHING EXPERIENCE WITH ME:
Client led conversation
Non-directive (I will sometimes advise, only when I have asked your consent to do so)
Creative (Games, resources, and poetry will be part of our sessions)
Solution based.
Bespoke and always tailored to you as an individual.
Anthropological
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Build it
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Grow it
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• Build it • Grow it •
What will your journey look like?
1ST SESSION WITH ME: 1 hour.
ASSESSMENT:
I will start by asking you what you would ‘like to achieve’ throughout these sessions and we will gain clarity on your current situation.
2/3 SESSION WITH ME: 1 hour.
CLARITY AND CHALLENGING PERSPECTIVES:
We will explore your options in a brave and safe space, and what needs to happen for your outcome to become clearer and your desired outcome reached. I will give you homework between sessions
4th SESSION WITH ME: 1 hour.
PROGRESS EVALUATION:
This will be when I offer ADVICE in the form of resources. You will be provided with a personal poem written by me at the end which will summarise the journey we have gone through together and your future objectives.
YOUR OPTIONS.
FREE INITIAL CONSULTATION:
This will be a ‘getting to know each other’ session for 10 minutes where we will see if we can work together and if my coaching is right for you. This will be a time for you to ask any questions you want to be answered. I will then send to you a contract with how many hours you would like to book with me.
WHERE?
Initial consultation booked via email: wasitgoodforyou100@gmail.com
Afterward, we will meet on ZOOM for an hour or in a private meeting room if you live in London.
PRICES:
1 session: £50
4 Session package (one session free if booked all at once):. £150
TESTIMONIALS FROM PREVIOUS/ ONGOING CLIENTS:
Eliza is an empathetic, charming, and judgment-free coach who is first and foremost great to spend time with and to talk to. She creates a safe space where she challenges me to be as open as possible and it's nice to have someone who isn't a friend, parent, or teacher. She is a facilitator through and through and I highly recommend’’ - H, Y
“Eliza and I had 6 sessions together and I came in struggling with PTSD from a previous relationship. She coached me in identifying how I feel and gave me valuable techniques to allow me to grow. She creatively advises and offers a non-judgemental safe space.”
— Linda S
‘’Coaching with Eliza has brought me out of a lot of struggles that had kept me in a rut this year. Her creativity made me see my life, then, as a ‘mist’ that I needed to wipe clean. Over 4 sessions we came up with all the tools on how I was to wipe this mist of confusion and isolation away and now I see very clearly. She also treats you with a poem in the end which was sent to me in the post and now I go back to it whenever I feel the mist creep in again. ‘’ -L, T
“Eliza uses her experience in the world of sexual expression to add flavor to every session. I learned so many new techniques to be a better lover and a better person”
— George T
‘’I was coached by Eliza about the traumas that kept me from exploring my sexuality in an open and honest way. She helped me navigate the context that was keeping me from seeing what I needed to do. She gave me homework which I practiced between sessions and came out feeling like a new person. She continues to check up on me and is always up for jumping on a call to help me be my most empowered self.’’- R,B
Book your free consultation
IF YOU WANT TO MAKE SENSE OF YOUR GOALS AND REACH YOUR DESIRED OUTCOMES, LET’S BEGIN BY HAVING A LITTLE CHAT ABOUT WHAT I CAN OFFER YOU AND WHETHER WE CAN WORK TOGETHER.
THIS WILL ALSO INCLUDE CONTRACTING SO WE CAN BOTH KEEP A SAFE, NON JUDGEMENTAL ENVIRONMENT FOR EVERY FUTURE SESSION.
